My wedding anniversary is coming up this weekend, and I find myself kind of bummed about it. It's not that being married is a bummer, or that we've been together for 6 years as man & wife (and 9 years since we first started dating), but the fact that we can't really do anything for it. The same thing happened when we had our anniversary after Miss O was born - babies kind of put a damper on any romantic plans. My parents have said that they'll watch the kids so we can go for supper, and then Miss O can spend the night... which is great, don't get me wrong. But there's no spur of the moment trips or overnights at a hotel.
I can't explain why this bums me out. Part of me feels selfish for wanting to completely leave both children with my parents for the night, whereas the other part is thinking "Why can't we just be alone for once".
No real point to this post today. Just that I'm feeling a little pre-emptively let down about all of this. Here's hoping that T actually plans something (it's his turn, after all) and doesn't just leave it until the last minute or wants me to plan it the day of.
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